It’s been exactly two years since I moved to the city.
All March, I had been frantically searching for apartments on Craigslist, trying to find the perfect place that wouldn’t break the bank, and kept striking out. Crumbling walls. Exposed wires. Crazy layouts. Possible death traps.
Finally, in mid-March of 2009, I walked into my current place, took one look around, and asked for the lease.
At the time, I was what my mother would call “transitioning.” I had returned from Haifa the summer before, started a new job in the winter of ’08/’09, and finally put together enough pieces of the post-graduate puzzle to move to the city. The only problem was that I didn’t know anyone. Or, barely anyone.
I started joking about Friend #1, a Cornellian who was starting his PhD coursework, and Friends #2 and #3, who had recently married each other. I had a terrible feeling I’d never meet numbers 4, 5, and 6. That I’d wander around on weekends, sit in cafes, watch the city hum with energy, and feel utterly outside all the excitement.
But things quickly fell into place after I signed for my apartment. I ran into old friends on the street, caught up with them over coffee, and began connecting with new people. Soon enough, I didn’t have to number my Boston friends anymore.
2009 seems like a lifetime ago now, but when I reach back into my memory on this two year anniversary, I can still tap into that original anxiety.
Weather: It snowed again today, and that’s not an April Fool’s Day joke.
Moods:
Anna – 7 out of 10. Weekend!
Yea looking for an urban apartment is the worst – glad you found something awesome!
Thanks. I was afraid I was going to end up with another 205 College Ave experience…